thanhks mate that is really helpful!,

But when you say better.you mean you do get completely over it. I.e. the next few months will be hard but when it has gone that will be it forever & i can put this nightmare behind me right? I really appreciate your meswsage thanks for your understanding it really helps.

My DOc wants me to see a phycologist soon to help with the coping mechanisms when you have a bad day or u get flicks or twinges there u know. Anything that helps.

All the docs & urologists ive seen (fair few now!) have told me Chronic is so so so rare it is not even recognised. Just need to know i will get over it one day, that there will be an end!

Dx